What Is This Question Asking?
This question is not asking whether your family situation is perfect.
Instead, it asks whether you are striving to fulfill any financial or other obligations you have to a former spouse or to your children.
Life doesn't always unfold the way we hoped it would. Divorce, separation, and other family challenges can be painful and complicated. Even so, the Lord expects His disciples to act with integrity and honor the responsibilities they have accepted.
Why Does This Matter?
Jesus Christ taught us to love others, keep our promises, and do what is right.
When we fulfill our responsibilities, we demonstrate honesty, compassion, and respect for those who depend on us.
Whether those responsibilities involve financial support, caring for children, or honoring legal agreements, faithfully meeting our obligations reflects Christlike character.
This question is another reminder that discipleship isn't only about what we believe—it is also about how we live.
What If My Situation Is Complicated?
Every family is different.
If you are sincerely striving to do what is right, continue seeking the Lord's guidance and counsel through prayer.
If you have questions about your individual circumstances or how this temple recommend question applies to you, your bishop can provide guidance based on your situation and the teachings of the Church.
The Savior understands every challenge you face and invites you to continue following Him with faith and integrity.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does this question only apply to people who are divorced?
No.
It applies to anyone who has financial or other obligations to a former spouse or to children.
What if I'm doing my best but my situation is difficult?
The Lord knows your heart and your circumstances. Continue striving to meet your responsibilities and seek guidance from your bishop if you have questions.
Scriptures to Study
- Matthew 5:37
- Romans 13:7–8
- Mosiah 4:27
- Doctrine and Covenants 58:26–28
Final Thoughts
This temple recommend question reminds us that following Jesus Christ includes honoring our commitments and caring for those we have a responsibility to support.
As we strive to live with integrity, fulfill our obligations, and treat others with kindness and fairness, we become more like the Savior and better prepared to enter His holy house.
We hope this article has helped you better understand this temple recommend question. Our prayer is that every resource we create points you toward the Savior and helps you prepare to make and keep sacred temple covenants.
Thank you for spending part of your temple journey with us.
— Scott & Riah Brough
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